Yea I know for myself due to stress on many occasions I have done the stupidest things. I know I am a weird girl at times. So, I hide under a rock for a while until the dust clear. ROFLOL Some communities are easier to be yourself in and feel like a mistake is forgiven all can move on. Other's not so much. Like years ago I had something for sale on ebay non pony. I had no idea two people from a community I was a member of were going to bid on it. These two people hated each other. So, innocent me sees that one person I know bid on it. No big deal. Then all of the sudden the next day the dreaded enemy of the bidder comes in and outbids her. When the auction ended the lady paid and I sent the item, but the first bidder told everyone I was a shiller. This was just because she got outbid by someone she hated and somehow in her irrational mind figured I orchestrated the whole thing on purpose. I had to leave the community. People can be so nutso. I can be nutso. I think really unfair things happen. We can't stop them sometimes. I was hurt for a long time and eventually I got over it and moved on. I lost so many friends over that ridiculous incident that I had nothing to do with. I had no idea that was going to happen. It was so bad I had to shut down my ebay account and start all over. The thing is you never lose what you don't have and in my case those friends I thought I had were not real friends. Not one of them ever asked me if I had in fact made that hated member outbid the nice member. The answer would have been, "no, I had no idea she was going to bid." I guess looking back I should have just cancelled the whole auction once the drama started and put up a blocked bidder thingy. This was in the earlier days of ebay when you could see who was outbidding you. I had someone actually write me on ebay during that time a hateful email because a doll lot I sold went for 300.00. They were jealous and decided to yell at me. I mean what tha? Do I even know you? You are upset about my auctions why? Is it your business? I mean seriously people. Who does that?