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Day 20:
Last night I started coming up with a plan for Thanksgiving dinner. It's always just the hubby and me because we live so far from both our families, and I can't even invite coworkers over (not that they don't already have plans with their families who live near) because we don't have a dining room table. "Please join us for a feast around the coffee table..." I usually don't mind this. I got over my "need" for a huge family gathering in order to enjoy my holiday long ago. We have figured out how to trim down the food prep to just the things we really like, so we don't have a ridiculous amount of leftovers.
But I started getting frustrated last night as I was trying to come up with some "new" recipes for this year. Running things by the hubby: sweet potatoes? No. Scalloped or mashed? Don't care. How about dessert? Yeah, we probably should. Sweet potato pie? No. Pecan? No. So, I got annoyed and walked away to finish planning on my own. I know he doesn't like pumpkin pie (I don't really either) and I'm tired of making apple pie (I have an awesome French apple pie recipe that I usually make). But he won't try anything interesting. So, I finally decided if I'm going to make something "standard" so that we both will eat it without complaint, I'm going to stick to something easy: chocolate chip cookies. That's a Thanksgiving dessert, right?
I was still grumpy about all of it this morning as I started to prep for buying the groceries. About halfway through the store I just stopped. We've been married for 11 years. At least 10 of those years we have done Thanksgiving with just the two of us. I remembered all the years that we had to scrimp the money together just to be able to buy a turkey. Some years I remember my Dad finding out and giving me grocery money to do it. My whole shopping perspective changed. I am SO THANKFUL that not only are our finances no longer so tight that we have to decide if we can even have a Thanksgiving meal, but that we have each other to share it. Whatever we eat, it will be together.
Sorry, that was a much longer post than I intended to make...
Last night I started coming up with a plan for Thanksgiving dinner. It's always just the hubby and me because we live so far from both our families, and I can't even invite coworkers over (not that they don't already have plans with their families who live near) because we don't have a dining room table. "Please join us for a feast around the coffee table..." I usually don't mind this. I got over my "need" for a huge family gathering in order to enjoy my holiday long ago. We have figured out how to trim down the food prep to just the things we really like, so we don't have a ridiculous amount of leftovers.
But I started getting frustrated last night as I was trying to come up with some "new" recipes for this year. Running things by the hubby: sweet potatoes? No. Scalloped or mashed? Don't care. How about dessert? Yeah, we probably should. Sweet potato pie? No. Pecan? No. So, I got annoyed and walked away to finish planning on my own. I know he doesn't like pumpkin pie (I don't really either) and I'm tired of making apple pie (I have an awesome French apple pie recipe that I usually make). But he won't try anything interesting. So, I finally decided if I'm going to make something "standard" so that we both will eat it without complaint, I'm going to stick to something easy: chocolate chip cookies. That's a Thanksgiving dessert, right?
I was still grumpy about all of it this morning as I started to prep for buying the groceries. About halfway through the store I just stopped. We've been married for 11 years. At least 10 of those years we have done Thanksgiving with just the two of us. I remembered all the years that we had to scrimp the money together just to be able to buy a turkey. Some years I remember my Dad finding out and giving me grocery money to do it. My whole shopping perspective changed. I am SO THANKFUL that not only are our finances no longer so tight that we have to decide if we can even have a Thanksgiving meal, but that we have each other to share it. Whatever we eat, it will be together.
Sorry, that was a much longer post than I intended to make...