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Cactusflower

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Why oh why, am I such a magnet for crazy men?

A little over two years ago, I briefly dated (3.5 weeks) a guy from a dating site. He was good looking, charming, intelligent and seemed very compatible. Great start, right? By the second date, I knew he had some unusual tastes, but I decided to give it a try, since I had been single for years.

Anyway, it didn't take long for me to realize he had very serious problems. Extremely violent and controlling tastes. I knew this wasn't for me. When I tried to end it, he snapped and I literally had to shove him out my front door. That's when the harassing phone calls began. He left me messages all night. Terrible messages. Insulting messages. I realized this guy was potentially dangerous and I was worried because he knew where I lived. I had fears that he might come and mess with my car or something.

I called the police non emergency and asked for advice. They took a report, so something would be on file, but they agreed not to contact him at my request. I thought that was the end of it.

He tried to contact me again about 6 months later through the same dating site. I ignored him and heard nothing until last night, when he started messaging me at 2am with insults and telling me he was completely over me. Yeah, because messaging me after two years with anger and hostility shows me how completely over me you are. This is clearly not a sane person. I'm deleting my profile and I'm done with internet dating. I've only ever met a couple guys and it has never gone particularly well.
 

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Men are dumb and I’m over dating. *long exasperated sigh* Clearly not over my recent break up (nor is he calling and wanting to “talk things out.” And after spending three hours on the phone last night I’m just exhausted and don’t feel better at all and no changes. -______-
 
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Tak

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Men are dumb and I’m over dating. *long exasperated sigh* Clearly not over my recent break up (nor is he calling and wanting to “talk things out.” And after spending three hours on the phone last night I’m just exhausted and don’t feel better at all and no changes. -______-
Let's stick to pups and ponies. Other furry friends are ok, too. Oh, and kids.
 

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Makes me glad I'm happily settled with my partner of almost two decades. Dating is a frightening concept to me. Way too many freakos out there, and not fun freakos like us.... scary ones, who eat babies.
 
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